July 20

Mars opposite Saturn

It will be hard to not feel under attack when Mars opposes Saturn on July 20th. Your first reaction will be to blame yourself which will them be followed by something retaliatory. The trick to deescalating the angry exchange is to recognize that the other party is in pain. It doesn’t give them the right to treat you like a doormat, but you need to figure out what you can handle right now. If you can provide the shoulder they need to cry on – great. If not? Then ask to reconvene later when you’re both in the right headspace to hear each other out. Signs most affected: Aries, Virgo, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Pisces