Child Of The Sun With Child Of The Sun
You can spot a fellow Sun Child in an instant. Maybe it’s the laugh, the gleam in the eye, or the regal pose of the head. It could even be a mannerism you both share. Before long the two of you are horsing around like old chums. Every time you get together (even if you haven’t seen each other for years) it will feel like you’re picking up right where you left off.
This makes for a powerful attraction and is a frequent pairing. Many people will respond to you as the “perfect couple.” However your Solar energies don’t necessarily interlink unless you’re both looking to settle down. Otherwise you could just as easily be friends or business partners.
So who gets top billing, Each of you needs a chance to shine, and since neither is particularly flexible (you can forget about taking turns), you’re better off divvying up the domain from the start. For instance if your mate likes to cook and you excel at entertaining, then you can go ahead and be the life of the party while your spouse gets to show off by serving a sumptuous dinner. This tag team approach will serve you well, until it’s time to do the dishes.
Everything’s fine until you hit adolescence. Trying to get a Sun parent to treat you like an adult is a exercise in futility. It might take until your mid to late twenties to realize that your Sun parent wasn trying to patronize you. He or she simply didn’t know how to deal with you while you were “finding” yourself. As a Child Of The Sun, you can appreciate the need to know where everything fits in the descending order of things. Once you have a child, or even a pet, you’ll see your Sun parent treat you like an equal, because then you’ll both have something to fawn over.
Your Sun child is your pride and joy. Nothing makes you happier than to bask in each other’s radiance, however it might be a good idea to include the rest of the family on occasion.
For the most part, your relationship will follow the pecking order. If you’re the younger sibling, you’ll show respect; if you’re the older one, you’ll insist on it. As Children of The Sun, you take pride in your pride and will swiftly close ranks against anyone who tries to mess with it.
One of you is the goof and the other is the straight man, always rolling the eyes at the latest hare-brained scheme, but going along with it anyway. Tempestuous and stubborn, you’ll go through times when you’re not talking to each other, but in the end you always fall into each other’s arms, full of apologies and pledging undying friendship.
It’s hard to make an enemy of a fellow Sun Child, but if it happens, there’s bound to be good reason for it. If so, one of you will exit the scene before too long. Your personalities are too strong to share the same turf.
There can be only one person in charge, and if you aren’t given your own special niche in which to shine, then this Solar Child’s personality will grate on you. Even if he or she is popular with everyone you will inevitably find something to criticize. Though not pretty, you need this kind of friction to nag you on to greater heights but you may have to go elsewhere to realize your ambitions.
You like to bond with the people you work with, but it’s important to remember why you’re together in the first place. There will be times when you’ll have to put your feelings aside and concentrate on the job at hand. Always keep a little space between you, so that you can pull rank when you need to.