Child Of Mars With Child Of Mars
You never have to worry about this person’s support or commitment. As soon as you put you shoulder to the wheel, a fellow Mars Child will do the same? and together you will surmount the most formidable obstacles.
For two passionate people, it’s amazing how cool, calm, and collected you are around each other. The appeal isn’t in the power of attraction but in the bond of friendship. As Children of Mars, you both know how your fiery desires flare and then smolder. And in truth, you don’t trust them. But you do put you faith in camaraderie. Even if you and your Mars love interest don’t remain an “item,” you will always be friends.
You are the most important person in each other’s life. If the two of you want to be alone, you have no compunction about canceling plans at the last minute. Subsequently if you’re both in a fighting mood you’ll have it out right then and there, regardless of whether you’re seated in the middle of a crowded restaurant. You two need to find a way to direct all that aggressive Mars energy so that it doesn’t wind up taking a toll. Keeping yourselves busy with demanding work is key to your happiness.
Just because your Mars parent will always tell you to pick yourself up and jump back on the horse doesn’t mean this person is insensitive to pain or looks down on weakness. Your parent knows that the best way to recover from a setback is to channel that anger and hurt into action right away. There’s plenty of time to lick wounds later. Mars dads and Mars moms are extremely nurturing. Just like a coach in the boxing ring, they can be push-push one moment and then rubbing you down and whispering words of encouragement the next.
It’s a good thing that your Birthday Planet makes you a natural coach. You know just when to push your kid and when to hold him or her back. One of the good things about raising a Mars kid is you can see where you were too hard on yourself. Teach your kid when to let himself or herself off the hook and you will learn to do the same.
You couldn’t help competing with each other. But where this would have brought out the nastier strains of sibling rivalry in most Children, it actually creates a powerful bond between you. You know you can always count on your brother or sister to tell it like it is.
You are constantly in each other’s business. People might mistake you for siblings or even lovers because of the familiarity with which you talk to each other and the way that neither of you will let the smallest thing slide. Whether it’s one hair out of place or an off-color remark, your Mars friend will call you on it. And vice versa. It’s nice to know that there’s someone who cares about perfection as much as you.
If you and a fellow Mars Child are enemies then chances are the quarrel has nothing to do with you but involves a member of your family, a friend, or even the company you work for. Draw the necessary line in the sand, but leave an out. As long as you can both walk away saving face, then differences will be settled amicably.
Hopefully this person handles authority well. If not, you will constantly challenge it until he or she leaves. If your Mars boss knows how to lead, then you know how to follow. Nothing makes you happier than to serve someone who deserves it.
You two are always competing. If channeled positively your drive to outdo each other will result in work that just gets better and better. If it’s negative then the entire office will become your battleground until one of you drives the other away.