Child Of Mars With Child Of The Sun
You envy the way Children of the Sun can simply enjoy themselves. Their lives are mercifully free of challenges in need of surmounting, skirmishes that must be fought, and actions that require defending. A Child of the Sun can bask in the moment, like soaking up the rays of the Sun? and just be. You may not be built for leisure (as a Child of Mars, you’re too feisty), but a Child of the Sun could certainly help you to lighten up.
It’s not like you to actually want to belong to anyone, but you truly see yourself as being at your Solar love interest,s service. When you remember that Mars is the Planet of knights and the Sun is the Planet of kings (and queens) then it doesn’t seem so strange. You would probably do just about anything for this person, but draw the line at falling on your sword.
Youll drop everything to attend to a stopped-up sink. Otherwise you’re busy scanning the horizon looking for other problems to solve. But getting together only for emergencies isn’t exactly your Solar mate’s idea of any way to go through life. This person needs fun and laughter. Go ahead and unwind bit. Isn’t that why you married this person in the first place? Don’t worry. You won’t go soft.
He or she came to all the games, competitions, and meets, no matter how far out of the way. Regardless of whether you won or lost, you were still a champ in your Solar parent’s eyes. You may feel like you have to do something to earn this kind of devotion, but you don’t. That’s your Mars talking. Solar love is bright and light and eternal. Like the Sun in the sky, you dont have to pay for it.
Your Solar son or daughter exudes self-confidence. The kid was just born with it. This isn’t an easy concept to grasp, because for you self-confidence comes as a result of competition and proving your mettle As a Mars parent you’ll want to toughen up your kid, but, in trying to build confidence, you could inadvertently undermine it. No one’s ever going to take your kid’s confidence away. Like the Sun, it burns on its own energy.
Your only criticism of your Solar sibling is that he or she doesn’t show enough gumption. Solar Children like to be comfortable and aren’t as willing as you to rock the boat. Though you like to stir things up, your Solar sibling learned that if he or she waited long enough, something good would eventually come along.
It doesn’t matter how many times this person tells you to cool it or to bide your time, you will go ahead and do what you wanted to in the first place. And afterward, when you come back from the wars dragging your sword, your Solar friend will say: “I told you so.” It would be nice if he or she dispensed with the smug expression. But that will probably only happen when you actually listen to this person’s sensible advice.
A Solar enemy will get haughty and dismissive, which is tantamount to waving a red flag in front of you. Nevertheless it’s up to you to hold back. Not only because you’re “better than that,” but also because this person really doesn’t know what he or she is dealing with.
The perfect working relationship. Your Solar boss loves to give orders and you love carrying them out. Work isn’t just a “job” with you. Everything you do is top-notch and a matter of honor. Hopefully this person is worthy of your loyalty and trust.
The perfect person to join forces with. But you both need to be careful about what you take on. Your willingness to go the distance can make you vulnerable to any manager or supervisor with a mind for exploiting it.