Child Of Mars With Child Of Venus
A Child of Venus will ways arouse your interest, and your ire. You will never encounter so many obstacles to your happiness as you will with a Child of Venus. This person comes with more baggage and complications than anyone you’ve ever known. Making plans takes on all the twists and turns of an epic adventure. Yet whenever you’ve had enough and are ready to call it quits, a Child of Venus will make you feel like the luckiest person in the entire world. You two are meant to thwart as much as cavort.
Neither of you can anticipate how nor when you come into each other’s lives. For some reason you always seem to enter a Child of Venus’s life right at the worst possible moment. Being gallant by nature (and that includes Children of Mars who are women), you don’t mind. You like coming to the rescue. But though you might think your Venus love interest is playing hard to get, this person is actually just busy trying to put his or her affairs in order.
You naturally focus on your side of the relationship and trust that your mate will do likewise. A Child of Venus will do whatever he or she thinks is right for the relationship. At no point should you assume this reflects what this person wants or feels. Children of Venus keep that information to themselves. Don’t mistake that obliging nature for passivity or subservience. Children of Venus love to be attached, but they don’t want to feel beholden to anyone. Show respect and appreciation and you’ll mate for life.
Your Venus parent figured out a long time ago that you would either wind up being your own best friend or worst enemy, which is why he or she wisely stepped out of the line of fire. Once you settle into your own, you’ll find your Venus parent emerging as more of a presence in your life, and you may even be surprised by your parent’s strong and colorful opinions.
If your Venus kid is a boy, prepare to fork out top dollar for the trendiest sneakers or the latest skateboard. If your kid is a girl, then the battle will be over makeup. Resistance is futile. But remember that Venus is the Planet of pledges. Build a relationship based on trust and your Venus kid will never betray it.
Your Venus sibling made everything look easy. The hair was immaculate, the clothes fit just right, even making friends appeared effortless. You, on the other hand, did everything the hard way. Once you catch on to the fact that there’s an art to making things look easy, you’ll change your mind about your approach and your sibling.
Your Venus friend can’t help but take the opposite side of an argument. The more impassioned you get about your point of view, the more your friend will question it; the more blasé you are about doing something, the more your friend will try to pique your interest. If you want to get this person to agree with you, then practice a little reverse psychology. It works every time.
You don’t become enemies with a Child of Venus until you realize you’ve been had, and then you get really mad. But you’ll have only yourself to blame. Wait until you’re in an objective frame of mind before discussing anything, especially finances. Otherwise your Venus enemy will fleece you every time.
Your Venus boss will teach you that it’s people who make good business, not money. There isn’t a better person you could work for, or a more valuable mentor.
Venus colleagues have perfected the art of “light and breezy,” and you could learn a thing or two by treating certain things, like deadlines and money, as if they weren’t a big deal.