Child Of Pluto With Child Of Venus
To you, a Child of Venus epitomizes all things beautiful. This person has the remarkable ability to make you forget yourself. Feelings of loneliness and scarcity slip away. You never feel so at peace as when you are around this person. A Child of Venus is your favorite obsession.
You evoke a powerful attraction from your Venus love interest, and equally strong feelings of ambivalence. Because it’s in this person’s nature to please, your Venus love interest will find it hard to say no to you. That’s why, if you come on too strong, this person may respond by dropping out of sight for a while or being open-ended about committing. Any sign of hesitation makes you more resolute, and so you’ll push even harder to firm things up between you. Rein in your passions and impatience. Your Venus love interest needs the freedom to make up her or his own mind.
There is no question that you two love each other deeply. However there is one matter you often fight over, and that’s trust. Trust isn’t a big deal for you, because you’re suspicious of everybody. But that suspicion works against your mate’s trusting you. For Children of Venus, trust isn’t about fidelity. It’s about equality. Your Venus mate’s reaction to when you get too demanding is to be evasive and vague. This, in turn, stirs up your fears that something’s amiss and you will tighten your hold on anything from finances to feelings. But if you relax your grip, you will find that instead of disappearing from sight, your Venus mate will come closer and even open up more. Letting down your guard is a tall order, but you’ve got to give to get.
Your Venus parent doesn’t mean to contradict you. It’s just that you can get so fixed in your opinions that your dad or mom feels honor bound to represent the other side. The point of all this is to establish some kind of balance, which invariably lies somewhere in between.
You could spoil this kid if you’re not careful. And though it gives you immense pleasure, you may be setting a dangerous precedent. Not everyone will be as generous as you. Set up some kind of point system based on weekly chores or grades in school. That way your Venus son or daughter learns to work for the things that he or she wants.
You’re still pulling your Venus sibling’s fat out of the fire. It began with the breaking of Mom’s favorite vase and continues to this day with the latest round of mismanaged finances or ill-conceived love affairs. You know your rescue efforts aren’t doing a thing for your sister’s or brother’s sense of responsibility. But what can you do? It’s family.
You will excuse things in your Venus friend that you wouldn’t tolerate for a moment with anyone else. This person is helpless when it comes to doing certain things, and you can’t resist lending a hand. Thankfully there’s more to your relationship than call-and-response. Half the clothes in your closet once belonged to your Venus friend.
Given your predisposition to Venus types, you will put up with a lot before you retaliate. However once you’ve decided you’ve had all you can take, you’ll quickly gain the upper hand.
The examining and reexamining of every single detail can drive you crazy. Your Venus boss says it’s about being thorough, but you know this person is really just trying to cover his or her backside. Don’t let your frustration get the better of you. If you go ahead and act on your own, and it’s wrong, your Venus boss won’t think twice about hanging you out to dry.
Expect to do all the grunt work. It’s your forte. But if anyone knows how to apply the perfect finishing touch or ensure that the right people see your project, it’s a Venus colleague.