Child Of Saturn With Child Of The Moon
Children of the Moon were born in the summer, when the Sun is strong and the earth is bursting with life. Subsequently they have an innate trust in things working out. This is different from you, who never takes anything on faith. But in some ways, a Child of the Moon is more practical. Where you tend to see life as a series of problems that need to be solved, a Child of the Moon moves along the current of events until it finds the circumstances that are most conducive to realizing its aims? then goes for it!
Children of the Moon like to nurture. Children of Saturn like to lecture. Accustomed to hooking up with love interests who need lots of love or guidance, it may take you two a while to realize you’re dealing with an equal. Once that sinks in, you may find yourself at a loss as to what to do. If you explore the possibility of a relationship where the old roles (and rules) don’t apply, then you won’t be disappointed.
You’re the breadwinner while your Lunar mate will inevitably wind up in charge of the household and/or kids. This holds true even if your Lunar mate is a man. Although these roles feel custom made, you need to reverse them from time to time. You don’t want to rob each other of the opportunity to grow. Besides, you want a chance to show off that one dish you know how to make to perfection.
Either your Lunar parent smothered you with affection or made you eat too much. This comes from the fact that Children of the Moon interpret crossed arms as a cry for help and a thin figure as a sign of malnourishment. Since Children of Saturn are inclined to be lean and standoffish, you would have felt like your Lunar parent couldn’t leave well enough alone. In time you’ll establish a mutual respect of sorts.
Your Lunar kid is extremely sensitive. But don’t mistake feelings that hurt easily for weakness. Those emotions, which look so vulnerable, are the same emotions that will sustain your kid through the rough times and provide solace when nobody else can. Trying to tell your kid not to feel so much would be like someone trying to tell you not to take life so seriously.
It may not be until you’re adults that you realize how much you have in common. Both of you are introspective, loyal, and see yourselves as long’suffering. However Moon Children are just as good with the guilt trips as Saturn Children, which is why you got on each other’s nerves growing up. But once established with your own families and/or lifestyles, you’ll turn to each other more for advice, support, and backup.
Your Lunar friend often surprises you with observations about yourself that are new to you. Normally this might make you feel judged or defensive. But your friend’s manner is so casual and matter-of-fact that you don’t mind. Indeed you even feel relieved there are some aspects of yourself that have eluded your own psychic censors.
A Lunar enemy goes for the weak spot. But this person doesnt fight to win; this person only fights to protect his or her home turf. A Child of the Moon is always open to finding a solution everyone can live with.
You won’t be working for this person very long. Either your Lunar boss runs the company like a mom-and-pop store (which goes against everything you learned in business school) or the vision is so singular (and the dynamics so personal) that you’re tripping psychic wires without knowing it.
You could work next to your Lunar colleague for years and never know the first thing about this person But seeing as he or she is always professional and reliable in a pinch, you may not need to.