Child Of Saturn With Child Of The Sun
You work hard to maintain your self’sufficiency, but a Child of the Sun knows you could always use a pat on the back and is only too happy to give you that vote of confidence.
Your Solar love interest is warm, glowing, and vital. But you’re afraid that he or she may move on, so you hold back. Your tendency to play it safe may give off the wrong impression, that you aren’t interested. If you don’t want your fears to become a self-fulfilling prophecy then be up-front about what you feel. Children of the Sun love to be loved.
You make a perfect pair. Regal and stately on the outside, few would suspect how silly you can be in private. Nevertheless when you’re on show, you’re businesslike and responsible. You like to give to the community you belong to and are active in its affairs. You’re both extremely busy, so when you rendezvous you’re naturally very guarded about your time together. Family and friends know better than to interrupt.
Your Solar parent couldn’t understand why you had to do everything the hard way. But it’s not as if you deliberately chose the most difficult path between point A and point B. What’s at issue here is really just a difference in approach. Children of the Sun take life one day at a time, while Children of Saturn try to project how things are going to play out in the long run, so they can steer the best course. Your mom or dad will always believe you fret too much, while you will always believe your Sun parent doesn’t fret enough. Thankfully you both have a good sense of humor about it.
Solar kids are warm, affectionate, and trusting, all traits that you enjoy but that also make you nervous. Your Birthday Planet is cool and guarded, and with good reason. Childhood wasn’t an easy time for you, and life didn’t really improve until you got into adulthood. However just the opposite holds true for your kid. The Sun rules childhood, so this is a golden age for your little prince or princess. Curb your overprotective tendencies and you’ll do fine.
You’ll have to get used to your Solar sibling’s skewed version of your childhood. As far as this person’s concerned, he or she was the only one who understood you and heroically defended you when others were hard and unfeeling. It would have been nice had things actually been this way, but seeing as that’s all behind you now and you’ve turned out no worse for wear, why burst your brother or sister’s bubble?
Your Solar friend brings out the clown in you. This person also has the unique ability to make you see the bright side of a dreary prospect. And it’s not because his or her advice is particularly savvy; it’s just that everything seems less dark when your Solar friend’s around.
If this person is in a position of power over you, then tread softly. Your Solar enemy can be imperious and, rather than sully his or her own hands, will get someone else to do the “dirty” work.
Your Solar boss knows that he or she can depend on you, which is fine until you feel like you’ve outgrown your role or would like to try something different at work. Like the Sun, which is a constant source of heat and light, your boss doesn’t welcome change or variance. Nevertheless, make a convincing case for what you would like to try (while demonstrating how your boss benefits) and you’ll gain wholehearted support.
As far as you’re concerned this person’s lazy and just doesn’t realize how good he or she has got it. If half the energy spent complaining went into getting work done, then maybe your Solar colleague wouldn’t feel so unappreciated.