Child Of Uranus With Child Of Mars
You can always rely on a Child Of Mars to go the distance. This person won’t give up before you do or leave you hanging in the lurch. If anything, Children of Mars are inspired by your breadth of vision. They never want it to come to an end. But you’ll have to remember to tell the person when there’s been a change in plans. If you forget, this energy dynamo will keep on going long after you’ve moved on to something else.
The attraction is instantaneous. And because Uranus and Mars are both such volatile Planets, it could burn out just as quickly. Nevertheless there are the makings of a deep and enduring relationship if one of you can slow things down. Given your Saturn side, that would be you. Remember that Children Mars become more impassioned when something’s kept from them.
One of the big issues you’ll need to come to terms with is the anger problem. Anger is as natural to a Child Of Mars as breathing. Asking this person to keep his or her temper in check would be analogous someone telling you not to worry so much. It’s just not going to happen. However that temper can be channeled in constructive ways. If your Mars mate feels free to curse up a storm, then that anger will burn bright and fast in the moment and go out. If your mate holds things inside, then that can be cause for concern, because this is when the anger becomes moody and petulant and you may feel as if you are walking around on eggshells. Anger, like any other emotion, is an energy that’s meant to be expressed.
Though your Mars parent could be tough and demanding, he or she also had a great sense of humor. This taught you to focus on the task at hand, but not to get too bent out of shape if things didn’t work out the way you wanted them to. Born under the Planet of contests, Mars parents know that if you don’t win one round there’s always next time. It’s because of this person that you have such a healthy relationship to competition.
It’s easy to champion a fiercely individual spirit in the abstract, but it’s quite a different matter when you have to deal with it day in and day out. At times your Mars kid’s provocative edge can get to you and you may get irritable. That’s allowed. It may even be desirable, in that Children of Mars like it when everything is put out on the table. They get very nervous around people who say they aren’t angry when it’s clear that they are.
Hopefully each of you found your own place to shine when you were younger, otherwise it would have been nonstop one-upmanship. Nevertheless you have your Mars sibling’s respect and (begrudging) admiration.
That back and forth repartee can get so fast and furious that total strangers can’t help listening in, you two are just so funny. For two people who often take themselves too seriously, it’s amazing what cutups you can be in each other’s company.
You don’t like bullies. Even if you aren’t directly involved, you will not stand by and watch someone be strong-armed. As a Child Of Uranus, you outrank Mars in the cosmic scheme of things. If you stand your ground then this person will turn tail and run.
You both have a deep respect for hierarchy, so your Mars boss won’t abuse his or her authority any more than you would question it. This person wouldn’t ask you to do anything that he or she isn’t prepared to do as well.
Always be specific when making a request, because your Mars colleague will take you literally. If you make a joke about asking for his or her firstborn, you just might get it.