Child Of Uranus With Child Of Pluto
You both know what it’s like to be an outsider. A Child Of Pluto is just as likely as you to follow the dictates of conscience, placing a higher value on what he or she feels is right than on what others expect. To a Child Of Pluto, there is no such thing as a split between mundane and spiritual concerns. Indeed, the belief that what’s highest in us is also reflected in our baser nature and that we must work with both, is a fundamental tenet.
There’s no denying the impact or the appeal. You find your Pluto love interest terribly exciting in a vaguely taboo way. However all of that could change after your first fight. Children of Pluto love to make war as much as they love to make love. That’s why this person will refuse to compromise on the slightest point. This could rub you the wrong way. However if you were to treat this as just another form of horseplay, then you could get into it. These pairings work best if you get together after a first marriage or long-term relationship.
You admire your mate’s emotional honesty. If this person doesn’t like something then he or she will say so. Part of you longs to do the same, but as you’re more political by nature, you worry about giving the wrong impression or stepping on someone’s toes. Nevertheless your Pluto mate’s candidness appeals to your subversive side, so you’ll support it, until this person goes overboard. You may be a maverick, but you are not ill-mannered. And when your mate gets rude and insensitive, you won’t think twice about upbraiding him or her right there on the spot.
This pairing works best if you and your parent are of the opposite sex. There’s no feeling of resentment or like anyone’s authority is being undermined when you disagree. However if your parent is the same sex as you, then this can bring out stubbornness and contrariness. Given time you’ll bridge the gap and even establish camaraderie.
Pluto kids have an inability to let go. This flies in the face of everything you believe. Obviously you’ll want to foster self-sufficiency, but taking something away from your kid just to prove a point is as bad as indulging every whim. Adopt a “win some, lose some” approach and you’ll gradually set up an easy flow of give-and-take. Until then, be patient.
You look up to your Pluto sibling, even if your brother or sister is younger. You admire this person’s passion and refusal to bend. You’ve learned a lot about courage and strength watching your Pluto sibling weather the various storms, but in truth you wouldn’t have made half the decisions this person did. Your brother or sister seems hell-bent on charting the most difficult course imaginable.
You’re as close as siblings ought to be, and without any of the infighting. Pluto friends always come into your life when you’re undergoing a tremendous crisis. There aren’t many people whom you allow to hold your hand, but a Pluto friend is there with the support, encouragement, and wisecracks every step of the way.
Neither of you will get loud. Nor will you raise your voice. You both just become eerily quiet. But of the two, you can last longer. Unlike your Pluto opponent, you really can turn off your feelings.
This is the only person who can get you to compromise on principle or cover for a white lie. But considering how conscientious your Pluto boss is, you wouldnt be asked to do anything of the sort unless it was absolutely necessary.
It all depends on whether your Pluto colleague wants to be there or not. If sufficiently motivated then this person will bring out the best in everyone. If not, avoid him or her at all costs.