Child Of Uranus With Child Of The Sun
For Children of The Sun, there’s only one way to do things, their way. This will bring out your argumentative side, because you can see at least three different ways of doing the same thing and who’s to say that any are better than the rest? Yet given your tendency to get lost in tangents, there’s something reassuring about someone you know will never change his or her mind.
A Child Of The Sun brings out your romantic side. Sometimes you can get so caught up in trying to make your life emulate your principles that you can forget you’re a person who has feelings that are every bit as powerful as your thoughts. When you’re born under two Birthday Planets (one that constantly looks ahead while the other sizes up what’s behind), it’s refreshing to encounter someone who’s strictly present tense. Your Solar love interest will show you how a moment can last forever.
You know your Solar mate needs to come first, but it shouldn’t be at the cost of your own identity. This is a tall order. On the one hand you’re confident enough in your own individuality that you can walk behind your mate without feeling overshadowed. Yet because you tend to disassociate yourself from personal needs (the word selfish is practically a profanity with you), you can then go too far in the opposite direction, which is to define yourself solely in terms of your relationship. This would be a great disservice not only to yourself, but to your partner as well. A Child Of The Sun is in your life to foster your individuality, not repress it.
Your Solar parent is a kid who never grew up. Even if he or she is heralded as the quintessential authority on this or that, you know it’s just this person pretending to act grown-up. In some ways you like how your dad or mom never lost that playful, guileless spirit; yet there are things that he or she did that were just too self-centered to be written off as naive. Nevertheless this is the person who serves to remind you that we all have feet of clay.
Uranus was named after the Greek god of the heavens. You have as many ideas as there are stars in the sky and can’t help but take in the entire panorama. But your Solar kid needs to identify with one of those stars, not all of them. Without that sense of self, then your son or daughter will feel lost in space. Encourage your child’s feelings of uniqueness, vitality, and entitlement. Once centered in who he or she is, your kid will be open to new ideas and higher realms.
Impossibly proud, boastful, and arrogant. Plus you could never quite figure out why you were always being lumped in with this person. Nevertheless you have a soft spot for your Solar brother or sister. You understand how beneath that self-assured demeanor lies a nest of insecurities.
A Solar friend will always remind you that you are the central figure in your own life. This is incredibly important, as there are times when you can lose sight of that, especially when you put the needs of the many in front of the needs of you. You can always rely on your SoIar friend to come down squarely on your side.
You can run circles around this one. All you have to do is agree to everything and commit to nothing. Though fierce in the moment, Solar enemies have no follow-through.
A little Napoleon. Nevertheless you only feel secure in your own authority when you can deride someone else’s, so you may want to keep him or her around for show.
Your experience with Solar colleagues is that they’re lazy. However you do enjoy their sparkle and humor. Plus they’re always going through some larger-than-life drama, which appeals to your love of soap operas.