Child of Venus with Child of Uranus
A Child of Uranus makes your senses tingle. There’s just so much richness to this person that it’s impossible to label it all. Every time you think you’ve got a Uranus Child pegged, he or she will confound your expectations. You could spend a lifetime just trying to figure out what makes this person tick.
Whether your Uranus love interest knows it or not, the contrasting signals of “come closer” and “no stay away” has you hooked. But don’t mistake these back-and-forth swings for playing hard to get. A Child of Uranus doesn’t play those games. What you regard as fickle and devilish may have more to do with this person figuring out the day’s agenda or suddenly remembering an important phone call that’s yet to be made.
Distance is built into their closeness, and though your mate will always tell you otherwise, the simple truth is that he or she needs a lot of elbow room. That’s why this person is always on the road or works job where he or she will be away for extended periods of time. This actually suits you fine, as it allows you to concentrate on matters of your own. Life only gets rough in the days before your mate leaves or has just returned home. It always takes a while to get back in sync with each other.
Uncomfortable with showing praise, flattery, or special preference, all things you live for and can never get enough of, your Uranus parent may have gone in the opposite direction by being too staid when it came to making you feel good about something you did. Children of Uranus just get very uncomfortable around the issue of “ego” and tend to look down on the need for recognition and gratification. Translation? Look for it somewhere else, and know that this person can’t stop singing your praises when you’re out of earshot.
Your Uranus Child always wants to do something exotic. And being a Venus parent, who are you to say no? However your spouse or in-laws may need some explanation as to why the kid wants to wear the tutu to school or go vegan at five. Teach your Uranus child to introduce new ideas slowly and not to hit people over the head with them.
Incredibly bossy. Even if your brother or sister was younger, he or she just had a way of making you feel condescended to. Either you were made to feel as if you were slow or perhaps just a bit too agreeable. Nevertheless you do respect your sibling.
It isn’t always easy to tell when your friend is going to play along or take you to task. Sometimes this person is feeling just as reckless and will even push the envelope much further than you ever would, and sometimes this person will simply look at you as if he or she doesn’t even know you. That’s a Uranus friend, unpredictable.
The words argument and fight just don’t compute. However the phrase “out of line” does, and a Uranus enemy will do everything in his or her power to see that you either step back into place or are routed out all together.
Although your boss will say there’s no such thing as a “right” way of doing things and will even encourage you to find your own voice or style, you still have to contend with the Saturn side of this person. And that side is constantly watching two things: the clock and the money.
Uranus colleagues don’t believe in titles. Work is a group collaboration. In fact, people should get together once a week to review their performances and to share insights and feedback. As a Child of Venus, you can see where this utopian vision is going. Do yourself a favor and just let this person take the lead. He or she is going to anyway.