When did everybody get so bitchy? That’s the question you’ll be asking this week when Mars opposes Pluto on June 5th. Nobody’s copping to it, but you can feel the hostility in the underhanded remarks, harsh criticisms, and wholesale lack of support. But before you go into full victim mode you should reflect on how you may have contributed to the present situation. How many times have you blamed your spouse for being unfeeling, your parents for withholding love, or your friends for being self-involved? Nobody likes to be labeled the bad guy and after a while that resentment builds up and seeps into everyday conversation and exchanges. Do the unexpected and invite people to air their grievances. Some of it may be hard to take, but it will restore relationships that have been taken for granted for far too long.